Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Life is a Choice


You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit—fruit that will last. Then the Father will give you whatever you ask in my name.   (John 15:16)

I believe that the most difficult thing a person has to make in his life is to make a choice. A choice that all of us has to deal with and experience daily in our life. Even for a simple task of what clothes to wear for the day or having to decide which movie you have to watch with your family or friends, we always have to make a choice that sometimes give ourselves a headache. For many, choosing a boyfriend/girlfriend, a lifetime partner and even the vocation you want to pursue the rest of your life are some if not the most difficult choices one has to undertake.

I remember when I was still a student, I have to make a choice whether to study very hard or just enjoy and have fun in school with the company of my classmates. I vividly recall many times where my friends would coax me to cut classes and join them gallivanting. Also, I will never forget the most difficult decision of having to choose which course to take up for college. As I look back, I have realized that all the decisions I made was not at all my personal choice. It happened because it meant to happen. It was God’s divine plan for me.

But I think the most intriguing and esoteric question to ask is, “How would I know if the choice I am making is the choice I have to make? We all go through this kind of process. We have to feel good or feel bad to realize that we are making the right choice. We can be wrong the first time and failed but apparently this is all part of the process that we have to go through.

It is inevitable for any human being to be confronted with situations whereby you have to decide and choose which path you have to take. I never prayed to be a counselor but I was led to choose this profession which I consider my ministry. I strongly believe that this is God’s divine plan for me. He has prepared and designed everything for me to be where I am right now but it is still all up to me to make that choice.

As they say, life is all about choices.  A chance to change is a choice too if you let it happen.  Now I ask you, what kind of choices do you do in your life?

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